Thursday, July 28, 2011

To At all times:
I think you are right on a lot of your opinions. I was thinking that maybe the reason he wasn't putting his device back on as I told him too was because he wanted more from me. I was just afraid that maybe he was steering away from this kind of lifestyle already and I wasn't sure how to approach him about it. I really like your idea about having rules that he must obey before allowing him to be released.I will try coming up with a list of rules and post them tomorrow for your opinion.  I think that will really give us a more 'for real' FLR. I have to come up with a hiding spot for his male underwear as he can find anything. I do have a lock box though that could work since I would be the key holder to that too!! It took me a long time to even consider this kind of lifestyle, so it may take a while for your wife to come around.  I started to enjoy it more when I wasn't struggling to get the house work done all the time, and then I was getting a lot more pleasure...ohhhhh yeah!!! :) I think the spanking is something that I am going to have to work on. He keeps saying that he wants me to start out softer and then get hard, but whats the fun in that? If I am going to spank him I want him to feel it right away!! I get about 15 whacks in and then he is begging me to stop. Although, he has never had any blisters so maybe he is just being a pussy. I guess it will be a punishment that will take some practice.

To Subservient Husband:
Wow! A whole year? Not so sure that I could handle that. Three months sounds like an eternity to me. I know its because we are just new at this, maybe in time I can do the year but for now, I cannot imagine going without sex for that long! About the doctor issue....I don't think that would work for us. I work in the medical field and I don't want that getting out in the open for everyone to know, cause even though HIPPA is out there, people would still talk. Otherwise,  I think that would be a great idea as it would be humiliating for him.

Thanks for all the great ideas and comments, it makes it so much more fun to actually have to people to share with and just talk to. Thanks again -P

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

How do I enforce it

Sooo, Hubby hasn't been very willing to go back in his cage since last time I took it off for just a bit of tease. I decided to be nice and let him put it back on the next morning. Problem is, morning came and went, then days came and went. He just keeps saying I will tonight, or I will in the morning.  I love having his little penis locked up because he's just so much more "willing". But my problem is I also like to touch, tease, and FEEL his dick, so I just keep letting him out with the intent of it just being for a little while to tease him or maybe even feel him inside me with out him cumming, but it always ends up being days before he locks back up willingly. So my question I guess any of you fellow readers had this problem? and if so how have you solved it? Also he keeps trying to wear the few pair of underwear that I allowed him to keep for "special events". I want him to wear his sissy panties at all times unless something comes up, such as a doctors visit or family gathering or something of that matter.....I mean it would really embarrassing for BOTH of us if one of the family saw him in pink panties, know what I mean? Thats why I like to let him keep a few pair of underwear but how do I keep him from trying to wear them all the time??
And the punishments...... I like to spank sissy when I can (we do have kids, so cant all the time), but when Im spanking him and start to see the red marks that makes me think thats enough, right?? But I always see other peoples post were they will spank like 60 times or somewhere around there, but I'm afraid I'm going to cause damage if I just keep on going much farther than the red marks....does anyone have experience with this??? I mean can I just keep on spanking until he cry's no matter how purple his little ass get's or?? Whats the guidelines on something like that? Is there any other punishment that would be good at really grabbing his attention and saying...hey DONT do that again other than spankings?
                             This is what feel like doing to him....just shoving one
                               of my dirty socks in his mouth so he cant scream,
                                       and just way laying into him...hehe

Well sorry for the Q and A type post guys, but now you know what I've been dealing with. I guess most new FLR's go through this type of thing but I just want to know how to get things back in order because I love being the one in charge of things......I just need some help getting there. Thanks and hope to hear from you real soon -P

Saturday, July 16, 2011

New Panties!!!

Well our outing didn't go quite as planned.... hubby kind of froze when it came time to pick out his panties, so I had to give him a little bit of help. I wanted to just stand back and not even act like I was there but he was to much of a pussy. That's ok though, he'll get there.
I changed my mind a little bit about the lingerie, we went ahead and got him some stockings and a nightie along with his new panties. Seeing some other guys dressed from some your guys' blogs sort of helped me realize that I guess alot of people do it and it isn't "that" weird. Here are some pic's I took of him when we got back home.

I let him take his chastity off for a little while for a stretch and little bit of teasing. That was a mistake..... here I thought I was being nice letting him have a little "out" time and he all I kept hearing is please let me wank or please let me cum....blah blah blah. Sooo I said ok, I got my phone and set my timer and said ...WANK your little dick!! Ole you could see the excitement in his eyes, and just as he was getting good and hard and starting to enjoy it....beep beep beep my timer goes off....hehe. He says whats that? that was your 30 seconds to wank it, no cumming, stop and lock back up, hope you enjoyed it. I had planned to let him keep the lock off tonite and put it back on tomorrow morning but since he just HAD to have a little wank he gets to go ahead and lock back up now.  Poor little sissy, maybe next time he will learn when to shut up. All in all had a great fun teasing night, now its time for some zzzzzz's. I'll leave you with a few more pics, just to embarrass sissy.

I like this one, he kept leaking precum everywhere so I made him go put one of my pads on, so he doesn't leak all over my bed sheets tonite.

One last thing..... since sissy has been a little whiny bitch about wanting to "cum" and for freezing up when it came time to pick out his panties, I need some help coming up with a good punishment. I was thinking maybe when I do let him cum, to make him cum in his mouth or a glass and drink it, maybe a really hard black and blue spanking.....? I dont know... do you think corner time or butt plug in public, or ??? Help me out I need some fresh idea'  Thanks -P

Friday, July 15, 2011

Sorry for the few days of absence...I've been a little under the weather the last few days. I haven't felt like doing much of anything.  I've got some making to do...HEHE. Tomorrow I plan to take him to the store and make him buy his own panties, I have always just picked them out for him while he stands behind and acts like they are for me. I wont be giving him any hints as to what I want, so he had better make sure to make good panty choices or he will be embarrassed by me telling him NO... those aren't sissy enough... try again, as well as a good paddling  when we get home.  I may have him buy some stockings to go with the panties too, he doesn't have any of those yet, lol. He keeps bugging me about a bra , he says that would be really humiliating but Im not too sure about having him in full lingerie, I just don't think I want to go so far to have him in complete sissy attire just yet, panties just seem like sissy enough, who knows...maybe one day down the road I'll love him completely dressed.
He has done really well with the house work the last few days without me having to tell him to, so last night I let him out for 1 minute to pleasure himself without cumming, It was really alot of fun to just sit there and watch him wank his little dick, the look on his face when I told him time up, get limp and lock back up was priceless. I told him he was to wear the chastity for two more weeks before I would allow him to actually have an orgasm. Two weeks doesn't seem like a long time, but I thought it was a little more reasonable for just starting a long term lock up. Before we would only play with the lock for like a couple days or so, so I figure we'll work our way up to longer periods. Any Idea's or suggestions on having hubby do, or buy, or just what ever...? because I'm just not that good at coming up with idea's. Thanks, -P    P.S. I'll try to take some pic's tomorrow from our shopping trip to post too....

Monday, July 11, 2011

 Here is a few pictures from tonight. Being new at this, I still am unsure what to do. I am also very uncomfortable with my body. My locked hubby always praises me and tells me how good I look, but I don't see it at all. I guess that's why I had issues on starting this kind of lifestyle to began with. Being the woman in charge your suppose to feel really sexy right?? Because he tried sneaking out of the house yesturday with his underwear on, I made him go outside and make me a paddle when we got back home, so that when he disobeys again I can bust his cute little butt! The holes make for some pretty nice purple bruises too!! :)
A little bit of teasing before hand was fun too! He hated being locked up and couldn't do anything about it. He loves seeing me in lingerie as he usually used to get his way with me, but not this time. Was quite funny to see him begging to get out. Til next time -P
Sorry I wasn't able to blog yesterday....had a BUSY day. Sissy tried to sneak out to go shopping in his UNDERWEAR, just so happened I checked before we walked out the door. So he got to go put on some nice pretty light pink panties with lace at the top so it would show at the top of his pants. Of course I dont think anyone saw but it was still fun knowing he had them on.
Any way here are some pic's I took last night of sissy... couple of him in his panties and of his chastity with my cute little pink heart property tag on it. As always comments and suggestions are welcomed. Thanks -P


Saturday, July 9, 2011


Hello, Im new to blogging and FLR, so I figured Id try it and see what happens. My husband and myself have recently decided to try and live a female led relationship. This is something that he has wanted to do for a long time, and finally got me talked into it. We have toy'd with chastity in the past, but now Im doing it for real. No letting him have a spare key just so he can use it to unlock himself whenever he feels like. From now on his releases will be when I decide to allow him one. I have also slowly started taking his male underwear away from him and replacing them with panties... (if your gonna do it, do itit right, I say). I will try to get on here tomorrow to post some pic's of my lil sissy so you all can see him. I hope to get some feedback and maybe some great idea's from like minded people since we are very new to this. Be back soon -P