To At all times:
I think you are right on a lot of your opinions. I was thinking that maybe the reason he wasn't putting his device back on as I told him too was because he wanted more from me. I was just afraid that maybe he was steering away from this kind of lifestyle already and I wasn't sure how to approach him about it. I really like your idea about having rules that he must obey before allowing him to be released.I will try coming up with a list of rules and post them tomorrow for your opinion. I think that will really give us a more 'for real' FLR. I have to come up with a hiding spot for his male underwear as he can find anything. I do have a lock box though that could work since I would be the key holder to that too!! It took me a long time to even consider this kind of lifestyle, so it may take a while for your wife to come around. I started to enjoy it more when I wasn't struggling to get the house work done all the time, and then I was getting a lot more pleasure...ohhhhh yeah!!! :) I think the spanking is something that I am going to have to work on. He keeps saying that he wants me to start out softer and then get hard, but whats the fun in that? If I am going to spank him I want him to feel it right away!! I get about 15 whacks in and then he is begging me to stop. Although, he has never had any blisters so maybe he is just being a pussy. I guess it will be a punishment that will take some practice.
To Subservient Husband:
Wow! A whole year? Not so sure that I could handle that. Three months sounds like an eternity to me. I know its because we are just new at this, maybe in time I can do the year but for now, I cannot imagine going without sex for that long! About the doctor issue....I don't think that would work for us. I work in the medical field and I don't want that getting out in the open for everyone to know, cause even though HIPPA is out there, people would still talk. Otherwise, I think that would be a great idea as it would be humiliating for him.
Thanks for all the great ideas and comments, it makes it so much more fun to actually have to people to share with and just talk to. Thanks again -P